Growing Number of Americans Switching to Imported Faiths
BY TARA DOOLEY
In retrospect, Carole Sturm traces her conversion to Islam
to a prayer she uttered as a 15-year-old in a Roman Catholic church. It was the appeal of
a spiritual teen-ager, raised in the church; the plea of a young woman who believed in God
but struggled with the Catholic mysteries of faith and forgiveness.
"I said, `God, show me what this means or show me
something else,' " Sturm, now 34, said, recalling an afternoon nearly 20 years ago in
Tulsa, Okla. "After that, I figured I was going to hell. I mean, I was 15." It
took about five years, but God answered her prayer and showed her Islam, Sturm said.
"It was a slow dawning," said the Arlington, Texas, resident and computer
systems analyst for Sabre Group based in Fort Worth. "It wasn't like I woke up one
night and said, `This is it.' "
In converting to Islam, Sturm joined a growing number of
Americans who switch to faiths that have been imported to the predominantly Christian
United States. National Islamic groups estimate that there are more than 6 million Muslims
in the United States, placing the religion's membership ahead of several of the nation's
mainline denominations. There is no formal or elaborate conversion ritual to the faith.
Someone who becomes Muslim must simply declare a belief in one God and recognize Mohammed
as a messenger of God, Sturm said. But like Christianity, attracting converts is important
in the religion, especially as Muslims choose to live in non-Islamic states, said Yvonne
Haddad, a professor of Islamic history at Georgetown University.
For Cherie Lyle, the decision to convert to Islam from the
Seventh-day Adventist Church was prompted in part by the assortment of races and
ethnicities she encountered during Friday afternoon prayers at a mosque on Center Street
in Arlington. "I saw this sea of Muslims that ranged from the blackest black to the
whitest white, and what came to me was `This is what heaven must be like,' " Lyle
said. Lyle's journey to Islam began when she happened on a television show about the five
pillars, or basic tenets, of Islam: a declaration of faith in the absolute oneness of God,
prayers five times a day, gifts to charity, fasting during the month of Ramadan and a
pilgrimage to Mecca. Lyle, who had taught Sunday school in her church, said readings of
the Koran offered a believable way to understand God and an account of how to live as a
Muslim.
The Christian Bible -- and especially the writings of the
Apostle Paul had confounded her with what she considered contradictions. "I
had studied very deeply, but I always felt that the hard questions went unanswered,"
said Lyle, who is trained as a lawyer but now teaches at Al-Hedayah Academy, an Islamic
school in Fort Worth. Although Sturm said that Islam once seemed a foreign faith to her,
it became increasingly familiar as she pursued a degree in finance from the University of
Oklahoma and met students from Islamic countries who shared their knowledge, including the
man she eventually married, Shazhad Khan. For Sturm, reading the Koran answered her
questions of faith in a logical manner. In addition to an emphasis on personal
responsibility, teachings on the importance of the family and morality also appealed to
her, she said. Although the teachings of Islam may feel instinctively right to Sturm,
following all of the customs is not always easy.
Both Lyle and Sturm said they have struggled -- to
different degrees -- with the Islamic requirement that women cover their hair. Once she
made a declaration of faith, Lyle, 43, immediately took to wearing long, concealing
clothing and to covering her hair. But after she broke the custom for her sister's
wedding, returning to the covering became more difficult.
Now, she sometimes does not cover her hair for business
meetings, she said. Similarly, Sturm does not cover her hair at work, where she often
deals with Sabre's clients -- although she emphasizes that the company offers a good
working environment for Muslims. Despite their difficulties with dress requirements, Lyle
and Sturm underscore that the decision about what to cover and when is a woman's to make.
Both women object to critics who say Islam is oppressive to women. Examples of extreme
restrictions on women's freedom to work or even walk unaccompanied outside in some Islamic
countries are cultural or political impositions on Islam, they said.
In fact, both say that Islam offers women reign over their
money and names. Requirements of modest dress are for both men and women, and nothing
prohibits sun dresses at home, Sturm said. "They are just and fair rules," Sturm
said. "People don't understand that. Really, there is a big misconception that so
many things are forbidden."
(source: http://www.sltrib.com/09111999/religion/22815.htm)
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